Her white legs were a contrast against his dark forearms as he joyfully held her, and when I asked if I could photograph them they obliged and proudly posed for the picture that you see above at the top of the article. Or the woman is Asian, Latina, Arab or some form of racial ambiguity that is not Black. I would however like to ask a few questions as well as explore the implications of Black men not dating or building relationships with Black women.
Of course there are incidents where a Black man falls in love with a woman that is not Black and it is purely innocent and void of any prejudice or self hate on his part. However, it is just an outright fact that Black males; boys, teenagers, young men, and old Black men in linen suits alike- are drawn to non Black women based on a preference that is conditioned in their mind to find beauty in women that do not look like their mothers and grandmothers- and resent or even be repelled by dark skin and thick hair.
It goes right along with being conditioned to not live around Black people if you can help it, to not work with Black people if you can help it, and so on. You literally can spend a whole Sunday afternoon watching young couples walk by and not once see a Black man and woman walking down the street romantically! A sci-fi movie romance could be filmed there with the following plot: A social affect is then on the rise where every single Black man and woman you see walks the city holding hands with women and men of other races as they have forgotten that each other ever existed.
Increasingly more and more Black women are connecting with and dating White men. In general for decades, if not centuries, Black women have been weirded out by, not interested in, nor inviting of the advances of White men. All men except Asians preferred Asian women, while all except black women preferred white men. So one of my reactions to the disproportionate popularity of Asian women is, I don't see troves of men flocking to Asian women in the offline world.
I wonder to what extent there's something about finding Asian women attractive online but not in "real life. How would, say, the "mask" of screens affect our preferences? But to your point about not seeing troves of men flocking to Asian women: I dunno, I feel like I see a strong "preference" for Asian women in real life.
I put "preference" in quotes, because I think there's a very fine line that teeters between preferences and fetishization, but that could be a whole other conversation. I actually do think there must be some of the Asian fetishization, er, "yellow fever" at play here. This just really gets in my craw, because it becomes a problem for the Asian women — Am I just loved because I'm part of an ethnic group that's assumed to be subservient, or do I have actual value as an individual, or is it both?
The results of this study only perpetuate social problems for both sexes involved. On the flip side, it's glaring how much everybody prefers white guys and doesn't respond to black men and women. And white men never have to question whether they're attractive to others because of a fetish, that's for sure. Dating as an Asian woman is sort of like this: Any other Asian women ever wonder this?
He saw that most people didn't reach out to potential suitors who were outside their race or ethnicity, and if they did, they were less likely to get a response. But the researcher noticed that people who were contacted by someone of a different race on OKCupid were more likely to initiate contact or interact with someone of that race later on. So where does that leave us, now? The connective tissue appears to be that race definitely matters when it comes to online dating. And that general idea is not necessarily something to get our backs up about, since even studies on babies indicate we might be wired to prefer our "in groups" to whatever we perceive as "out groups.
But the question that I'd like to see people get at is the difference between the online and offline worlds when it comes to these preferences. Maybe this is an app just for weirdos who love Asian chicks and don't love black women? I am annoyed for the black women who seem to be clearly getting discriminated against by these online picture-scanners.
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