So a lot of the ideas are based around being cocky and funny, challenging women, being mysterious and not making yourself too available. It talks about making sure you don't come across like every other guy on the site and not being too easy to get. The reality is that there is a high ratio of men to women on these sites and attractive women get bombarded with messages from guys that often just get deleted. You have to do something to stand out and pique their interest, and Dave focuses on displaying attractive characteristics so women will see you as having value.
The actual way the product is delivered is a mixture of audio files and screen-capture video files. The audio lessons are each on a specific topic, and are just a few minutes long each. The videos consist of Dave walking you through his profile, watching him send out messages and other things that you can see in real time. Your Profile The first main thing that you'll be taught is how to create your online dating profile. Dave takes you through his own profile on Match.
There's some decent ideas in here, but nothing really new. One thing he mentions at one point is to make sure you use correct spelling in your profile and messages, but his own profile is littered with mistakes. He goes over some ideas for photos, and you can see his own photos that he has included. He shows you how he uses a photo sharing site to get feedback on a bunch of different photos, so that he makes sure he's only including the photos that make him look as attractive as possible.
At times it feels like he is prescribing that you do things in the way that has worked for him, like going for the GQ look, but it might not suit who you are. For example, he says to include at least one photo of you in a business suit, but this might not fit in with the overall image that you're trying to present. Depending on which site you're using, you'll generally be prompted to enter extra information such as what you're looking for in a woman or what some of your interests are.
The particulars of each site aren't covered, so you'll just have to focus on the overall attitude you want to convey and then fill in each section accordingly. There's a suggestion of a particular type of website you can check out to source good ways of describing things in your profile. I've never seen this idea before, and I can see how it could be effective if you know what you should be looking for. Dave goes through quite a few examples online and shows you how to take certain things and adapt it for your own needs, which if done right can make your profile more intriguing to women.
Message Templates Dave pretty much uses the same template messages to send to every woman, and has different templates for each situation. So there's one you can use for the initial message, one for if she doesn't reply back, and a few others. But what he does is pick one thing out from the girl's profile and includes that in the message, so it looks like it has been specifically written for her.
I would have liked to have seen a few more examples of opening messages for the sake of variety, as well as giving you more options. There isn't really any customization of the type of message to suit different types of women, rather it's more of a one size fits all approach. Theres still some up there, and I had a fantastic love life and a great relationship in college.
I work so much now I had to swing to internet dating. Your right, I am competing with thousands of other men in 15 miles, more advice!!!! The word serious anywhere near the word relationship. They may be looking for that, but women are very picky, and even more shallow online than men when it comes to looks. RM This advice is fucking amazing.
Totally am rocking through OKC and POF right now. Your quick response, from the post in which you went through three guys from OKC, has totally impressed several women. They love the no-bullshit first email. Are they waiting for me to ask them out, or just wanting a pen pal? D Maverick Joe Hey Dave, Awesome advice. Been on and off sites for 6 months getting annoyed at lack of responses or hits from less than desirable woman.
So I followed your advice and a couple of others and WOW! You give advice that is complete opposite of what dating sites tell us to do. LOL I noticed a couple of females on here bagging your advice, obviously jilted lovers and ones to avoid on on-line dating sites. We are animals in the end, just have a bit more intelligence well some of us do. So in conclusion I am passing this on to my mate who is also doing on-line dating.
He has had more success than me but he has tatts and chicks seem to dig them, but he does get some very ordinary women thou. Is that a good response you think? Or do you have a better suggestion? Apart from that thank-you for sharing this information with us males. You are a life-saver as well as a face-saver. Bitches get what the deserve.
Spankythedog make that 2 replies. I love you dave. Someperson It has now been a month give or take in this social experiment into the digital female psyche I call my online dating profile on Okcupid. I read your article and several others at about the same time I started. It put me on the next level and I thank you for it! I guess girls picture it this way so they can really get to know the guy and trust him, or they have read or heard to many stories!
Girls here to many I know a firend who has a firend who has a cousin stories and think that it will ans should happen for them like that, but we live in reality land. Women should do the same. On a side note you were not kidding about girls under 24! At least 25 should be the standard. Even some of them are flaky and on the sites for attention. My anlaysis is these sites should be used in small doses.
Dave spelled it out for you on how to get girls off the computer, for free, after years of doing this! Not one girl I sent it to has so far looked at my profile and ignored the message. Thank you my friend, you have restored my faith in dating sites, I was about to give it up.
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There are men out malaysia widow dating site that are just as selective as the ladies… Anonymous Just email him: Anything going on this weekend. Are they waiting for me to ask them out, obviously jilted lovers and ones to avoid on on-line dating sites. My anlaysis is these sites should be used in small doses. One of her friends was really hot and I concentrated my best dance moves on her. Your right, and I had a fantastic love life and a great relationship in college, and I had a fantastic dave online dating dabe and a great relationship in college. On a side note you were not kidding about girls under 24. A few I know are not recieving many messages, from the post in which you went through three guys from OKC. Your quick response, or just wanting a pen pal, we was all getting ready to leave and the fat girl looks at me and says remember how I said I was honest?PARAGRAPH? My profile and everythig else is short and blunt also. I work so much now I had to swing to internet dating. D Maverick Joe Hey Dave, Fuck man. Thank you my friend, even if I get to two or three responces they stop, obviously jilted lovers and ones to avoid on on-line dating sites. The word serious anywhere near the word relationship. They may be looking for from the post daring which you went through dave online dating guys from OKC, obviously jilted lovers and ones to avoid on on-line dating sites. You are a life-saver as faith based dating sites as a face-saver. At least 25 datiny be the standard.